Umbral Court Events

Welcome to the Umbral Court!Umbral Court Events is a premier event host dedicated to creating unforgettable experiences for adults who embrace alternative lifestyles. Our gatherings are designed to provide a safe, sophisticated, and welcoming space where individuality and self-expression thrive. We curate immersive atmospheres that celebrate sensuality, freedom, connection, and exploration.

Vendors

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Contact

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Facebook: Umbral Court Events
Twitter/X: @UmbralCourt
Bluesky: @umbralcourt.bsky.social
Fetlife: The_Umbral_Court
SDC: UmbralCourtEvents

How the CNC Parties Work

Our events are centered around the kink known as "Consensual Non-consent". This is the consensual, intense role-play of one individual consensually performing non-consensual acts on another.
For this roleplay, and the safe practice of it, we have created an event where the real safe word is not "No", but "Red".
CNC is a disproportionately female-preferred kink, and this party exists to give "prey" a safe space to explore arousal that might be less welcomed in more traditional spaces.
Our events are designed to be spaces to both ignore the "nos" of others, and have your own "nos" ignored.Before the event:
The "Predators" and "Prey" submit their applications for their requested role for their event. The applications for each will be reviewed and either rejected or approved.Rejected: If rejected we will let you know. Better luck next time.Approved: When approved, you will then be asked to apply for membership based on your role, and asked to submit STI results to us that are within 21 days of the party.Results received: You will receive information with the time and location as well as events rules.The day of the event: We will have a strict arrival window in the early afternoon. If you cannot arrive within this window you will not be able to attend the event. Once you have arrived we will have a moment for everyone to meet and have a primer to go over rules, policies, etiquette and how wrist bands work.

The Default Consent List

This is the default consent list. All prey consent to the activities on this list if they are actively playing.KissingGropingDisrobingSensory deprivation (blindfolds, earplugs)CunnilingusBlow jobs / Light facefucking (without condoms)Vaginal penetration (with condoms and lubrication)Cumming on face/body (externally)Moderate SpankingModerate hair pullingWrestlingLight pain (1-5/10)Light bitingLight bondage

Wristband System

For our events we will be using a wrist band system. There will be one wrist band to indicate actively participating, and the remaining wrist bands will be to indicate limits and preferences outside the scope of the default consent list.
While prey has the actively participating wrist band on, that means they consent to everything on the default consent list. If this wrist band is not on, they are not participating and predators may not engage with them without express consent -Sparkles: Actively ParticipatingDark Blue: SpittingRed: Degradation (not including body-shaming, race-shaming, disability shaming, or mental health shaming which are disallowed entirely)Green: Clothing destructionLight Blue: Gags (purpose-made, not improvised)Orange:Intense facefuckingWhite: Internal and external ejaculationBrown: AnalRed: Heavy spankingPink: Moderate pain (6-7/10)Purple: Hard bitingBlack: Severe bondage, long term bondage, or discomfort positions (full-body restraints, immobility, suspension*)Yellow: Fights back

Prohibited Activity

Here is the list of prohibited activity for which cannot be negotiated or permitted via wrist band -Engaging with prey in any way that they have not negotiated or have a wrist band forEngaging in prey after they have verbally expressed "Red"Engaging with prey if they do not have the Actively Playing wrist band onScatBloodPhotographyVideographyAudio recordingsCuttingWeaponsSevere painPermanent ModificationsBody-shaming, race-shaming, disability shaming, or mental health shaming

STI Testing

All events will require testing in advance of the events by 3 weeks/21 days for all participants.
We require negative results for all potential STI's within that 21 days period with the exception of HSV 1/2 and HPV.
For those with positive HSV or HPV results we ask that those conditions be managed appropriately before attending.

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Play Parties

The Umbral Court play parties are a night of desire and delight, where lust and passion can be expressed to their fullest.The Umbral Court Play Party is a kink friendly and LGBTQIA+ inclusive party is for the purists who intend to come and play, but keep their expectations in check, as consent is key to the best experiences.We encourage those attending to be their most authentic selves, and be able to express their wants, needs, boundaries, and desires to those they wish to engage with.To Attend: RSVP via fetlife, SDC, facebook or our application page. If selected you will receive an invite with link to where a temporary membership can be purchased online or at the event location itself. This membership is good for 24 hours and allows you to attend our private events. The event itself will be curated to meet the size of the space and demographics that the event will require.

How Membership Works

TBD